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Acts 12 to 17; #26Acts of Kindness

12/20/2012

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Act #12: A local radio station held a Stuffed Animal Drive last night in front of the Thomas & Mack Center. All donated items were sent to first responders to hand out to children in crisis situations. I know how much Scotty loves/needs his Froggie, so this was a no-brainer. Act #12 found Scotty and I collecting some friends that were ready for a new life with a new family, so despite the cold and traffic, we braved it down to the middle of town with our goodies. Chet Buchanan from 98.5's "The Morning Zoo" accepted our donation and was incredibly friendly and gracious. I really enjoyed chatting with him. When I told him I'm originally from Chicago, he immediately mentioned Eddie and Jo-Bo from B-96. Such a small world and what a total flashback from high school. Nice guy, great cause.
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Act #13: Today is recycling day. The truck only comes around once every two weeks, and during that time, there is about a 15 second window of opportunity to catch the driver. We've gone weeks watching our recycling pile up since he usually comes early in the morning. Today, however, I was determined to snag him and give him cookies.

Our moment arrived right after Brian left. I was still force-feeding Scotty his scrambled eggs when we heard the familiar rumble. I didn't have time to do much more than throw on my red coat and grab the bag of cookies before he passed our house. How one man can empty full three bins by himself so quickly is beyond me. It is combined recycling, I guess. But we made it out of the house just in time to watch him hit the last house on the corner when I took off. Leaving the Bear standing on the porch, I ran like a mad woman - barefoot, mind you - waving and hollering. He saw me, saw the cookies, and broke into a wide grin. I tossed the bag at him, yelled "Thank you!" and he was on his way. That's when I realized my feet were freezing. And really dirty. Yuck.

Act #14: I was a little more prepared for the garbage men. With my boots already on and pajama pants safely replaced with real pants, I had both bags of chocolate-covered pretzels waiting for me by the door. Again, it was during meal time we heard the chug of the engine and Scotty and I made a beeline for the door. The two garbage men are a little bit slower paced than the recycling guy, and when they saw me, they actually stopped the truck to chat. Cornelius, the guy on the back, and Willie, the driver, seemed tickled to get their decorated goodies. Cornelius even brought our garbage can up to the house in a kind gesture of his own. Seriously, I love our garbage men.
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Act #15: (technically, this occurred before the garbage truck story, but I numbered them out of order in my little book)

I bought lunch for the two guys behind me in line at Subway. They were wearing bright orange vests and clearly worked in some kind of construction job, which meant they were Scotty's heroes immediately. Ever so kind and before they knew about their free lunch, they kept Scotty entertained in line, chatting with him and asking about his truck. They were so sweet I couldn't help but throw my debit card down when their order was rang up. For $8.05 (two 6" subs - whew. I thought for a moment they were the meatball-and-sub-meal-deal guys), you could not have asked for a better reaction. I wasn't sure if they were going to cry or kiss me. Both checked my left hand for a ring. Um no, I'm not hitting on you. After the usual pleasantries were exchanged, we all kind of just dispersed in our own direction to avoid the strange awkwardness that came over us. Uncomfortable, yes. But I hope they pay it forward.

Act #16 & #17: I will be passing out more holiday treats to 16.) the neighbors down the street and 17.) a local firehouse later this afternoon. At this point, I'm not sure if I'm spreading kindness or obesity, but I'm not going to overthink it. This is fun and Scotty and I are enjoying ourselves.

So far, this is what others have been up to...

Krista in Illinois was sidelined by a nasty cold but made up for it with a huge gesture of kindness. She donated half of her yearly bonus (WOW!) to WINGS, a shelter for domestically abused women and children. She wrote, "As a mom, I constantly think how fortunate I am to have medical care, food, and just the basics for my kid. So this year, we are donating the extra that God has given to those who have so so much less than us." Way to go, Krista!!! I should mention, her "kid" is a little red-haired butterball of a one-year old. He's lucky to have such a cool mom.

Chai in LA celebrated her daughter's fourth birthday yesterday with cupcakes and lots and LOTS of kindness. So far, she surprised her daughter's teachers with flowers, donated to one of her husband's co-workers' families that are experiencing hardship as a result of Hurricane Sandy, written notes to the teachers at Sandy Hook, purchased toys for the Today Show Toy Drive on Amazon, and filled a parking meter with 10 hours. In LA, that's worth it's weight in gold! Nice work, Chai!!

Kori in New Mexico has shared this idea on Facebook and the promptly went out and purchased McDonald's for the car behind her in line. Way to go, Kori!

Please know: twenty-six acts is a lot. Scary to think of what the number represents, but if you are intimidated or overwhelmed by it, just do one or two. Even one random act of kindness can touch someone unexpectedly and create a tiny flicker of hope in this world.

If you'd like to share how you're spreading kindness, drop me a line at bedrestbookclub@gmail.com. I'd love to it share with others!!
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Sarah
12/20/2012 12:37:09 pm

Reading about something positive is so refreshing. Being on both the giving and receiving end of projects like this really helps to feed my faith in people. Someone bought a coffee for me sometime last year and the impact is still there. It had nothing to do with the coffee … it was just so cool that someone was nice and not looking for anything in return. Buying coffee for the next person in line felt even better than receiving.

I feel like we should all be “Kindness Advocates” and find ways to be intentionally kind daily. It could get expensive if I bought strangers coffee EVERY day but maybe I could let someone cut in line at the grocery store or write someone an encouraging note.

I saw this link today and it had a printable checklist that I thought was kind of fun. http://www.kindovermatter.com/2012/12/KindOverMatter26acts.html

I see people having Instagram Monthly Challenges that go viral ... maybe there should be monthly Kindness Challenges???

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